Loving the Messy Bits

Expansion can seem graceless. I get messages every day from friends who are irritated. And I won’t lie, my "good girl" gets her bloomers in a bunch. She feels like she needs to write everyone back in 5 minutes “or else!” The reality is though,…

Sometimes I want to take my ball and go home. The bullies aren’t usually that big. Today it was a sleepless night, some tension knots in my ass, the discomfort of expansion, a rejection, and three days of rain. I’m usually a s-hero when the…

It’s not safe. You will not come out intact. Do it anyway. The best things destroy your world So you are available for more.  

I once had a woman call and ask what my workshop was about. I told her, “I don’t know yet. But there will be snacks.” She signed up. That has been my version of sales. Truthfully, selling has inspired an internal allergic reaction from me.…

I’ve been asking myself today how do you love someone going through a crisis…especially a long crisis. Someone who is big, beautiful, resilient, and life has kept magically knocking down. I think it’s easy to blame people for their suffering. It makes you feel as…